Consequences are very hard and real. That other people will use your time, effort and money and not appreciate you at all. [–]DiscipulusAeternam 51 points52 points53 points 1 year ago (12 children). In a way, it’s empowering. Someone to love... That's a tough one, but in my life the times that I stopped worrying about love were usually the times that I found it. I’m in high school and a few years ago I had to watch my grandpa fall victim to Alzheimer’s and a little bit of dementia. Jack Dawes. Maybe it won’t be that bad but nip it in the bud before it has the chance to become something beyond repair. When im gonna be 60 and still make pillow forts. Life is cannot be broken down into dichotomies. But don't ever kid yourself that 'I'll be happy when I get [X]', or 'I'll be content when I achieve [X]'. The WoT scorecard provides crowdsourced online ratings & reviews for askmen.com regarding its safety and security. [–]hereticjones♂ 1518 points1519 points1520 points 1 year ago (49 children). Like, everyone enjoys watching an insane guitarist, but most of the community just like the positivity and sense of community, so beginners are insanely common to see, and there’s a lot of helping hands that love watching the beginners take their first steps into the world! I remember how he was when I was a child, but I’ve realized I never really got to any real mature conversations with him before he changed. Losing weight gets progressively more difficult. You may feel young and think that you are still 20, but the young women you are trying to flirt with see a pervy old dude. Just take care of yourself. I am only in control of me. [–][deleted] 38 points39 points40 points 1 year ago (4 children). [–]CptSandbag73 59 points60 points61 points 1 year ago (2 children). Then, you get your Master's, and you realize you don't know anything. No posts about specific individuals or situations, No specifying majority/excluding minority demographic, Looks like you're using new Reddit on an old browser. That I am the single common denominator in all of my life's problems. Participate elsewhere on Reddit to gain experience and karma before trying to post here. It's not about how hard you work, how smart you are, or how talented you are. Use of this site constitutes acceptance of our User Agreement and Privacy Policy. Good news is if you quit it goes away just as quickly if it isn't too late. You start to realize that at 50 you don't have that much time left, you now understand that old people walk slow because their joints hurt, and everything makes you fat. You always have that thing in the back of your mind - “I could do that if I bunkered down and focused on being the best I could be”. I could still find success. [–]mcflurry10s 41 points42 points43 points 1 year ago (1 child). Doesn't matter if it's softball or dungeons and dragons, lots of new friends are there. That question has a million answers, but the common thread across them all is that the way I thought caused the depression, but I insisted on seeing it the other way around. Didn't happen. AskMen is the No. If you're not practicing being content now, you won't be content when you get what you want. It is WAY harder to get BACK into shape, than it is to SYAY in shape. Harsh, sure, but is it hopeless? [–]MeEvilBob♂ 276 points277 points278 points 1 year ago (11 children). It’s weird realizing your athletic prime has passed. That said, I really should take up that mantra again, [–]CheapComb 49 points50 points51 points 1 year ago (0 children), Wow. [–]L337Cthulhu 3495 points3496 points3497 points 1 year ago* (70 children). This is not a fucking optional rule. It matters. All the sex/dating tips, fashion/grooming/style, sport & fitness, life hack videos you need to become a better man and much more! It burned like hell. [–]teqnicolor_fox 262 points263 points264 points 1 year ago (7 children). *shudders*, [–]tenate 112 points113 points114 points 1 year ago (20 children). I am confident in my own being and my own value. r/AskWomen: AskWomen: A subreddit dedicated to asking women questions about their thoughts, lives, and experiences; providing a place where all … Home. Nowadays, I’d love to go and start a little bar band, but I have too much going on at home to spend multiple nights out at practice and gigs. [–]Tycoda81 201 points202 points203 points 1 year ago (12 children). 2.4m members in the AskMen community. Shares. But looking back, I was actually very influenced by the music I was listening to and the tv I was watching. Pay attention to the ridges and don’t brush too hard. Stop making excuses for shitty people for the sake of keeping them as “friends”. Men who found their hobbies and passions later in life, how did you do it? My first forever injury was a mental blow. AskMen may get paid if you click a link in this article and buy a product or service. [–]comrademikel[] 19 points20 points21 points 1 year ago (0 children), [–]dredfredredGive in to Chaos 121150Answer Link12.1k points12.1k points12.1k points 1 year ago2 (168 children). Age does not kill you, mental and physical inactivity do. For years I would make excuses in my head that why were just being funny but in reality they were jealous and acting out and making me doubt my choices in life. [–]BillyBatts83 299 points300 points301 points 1 year ago* (11 children). [–]kendollamar 131 points132 points133 points 1 year ago (46 children). Did that have an effect on how you viewed the relationship? I would’ve saved myself a lot of regret if I didn’t think that tv dating was realistic. Doing what makes a lot of money is the better option, and doing what you love on the weekends/free time is the best option. You are two different people with different lives, I have been an NPC in a LOT of peoples lives over the years, and I find it hilarious, You have to put in effort to stay in good shape, no more eating full pizzas and going to sleep to keep a good body, That thing you did 20 years ago that was super embarrassing, only you care about it enough to remember, anyone else who goes out of their way to remind you about it is a huge dick, A lot of what my parents told me was from their experiences at my age, many of them still apply to me, You are not as important as you think you are, [–]dcbrat0123 24 points25 points26 points 1 year ago (0 children). [–]jawnlerdoe 214 points215 points216 points 1 year ago (22 children). People are selfish. What would you do if someone came to your door and said "I'm here because I'm legally required to tell you I'm a registered sex offender"? Food & Booze. You can take a lot of pressure off yourself when you realise this. [–]HumanGuyPerson69420 452 points453 points454 points 1 year ago* (63 children), Haemorrhoids will happen. Yet without fail every time I attend a family event I hear from multiple people about how incorrectly I'm living my life. There will be no magic moment that changes it all. , [–]Littlebrownfoxx 112 points113 points114 points 1 year ago (3 children). Home / Best by subreddit / AskMen AskMen. People look as you as old. These things are all pointless. This has led me to the conclusion that I should be glad for those embarrassing times, in a way: they have made me a better person. I had them the first time back in the day when I went in high school, when I was 18 yo. Magazine. Entertainment Website. You might become intolerant to certain foods (dairy, spicy, acidic, etc) and will have to change your dietary habits. The hair on my head isn't coming back. [–]Figgywurmacl 459 points460 points461 points 1 year ago (24 children). Good bad. Solid advice. Get an ad-free experience with special benefits, and directly support Reddit. While this is pretty dead set on guitar, I’d be willing to bet that there are similar communities for pretty much all interests. Sunscreen! If you have a medical issue that persists, get it checked out if you can afford it. And just because they need you doesn't mean you have to stay. In the famous words of Jean-Luc Picard, "It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. I'm trying to be really open with people about who I am, rather than present some better version of myself that maybe people would want to be around. You will be under appreciated in big ways by more people than you think. I’ll probably never climb another mountain, at least not without some intense physical conditioning. I'm 38 years old, and I'm more aware than ever that I'm just a little kid driving around in an adult body, stomped down by the cumulative force of the real world - eighth-grade bullies, asshole bosses, bad luck, unhealthy relationships, and the occasional hard-fought win. alchohol can be one of the easiest ways to change how you look. This one hit home. [–]reepicheep08 327 points328 points329 points 1 year ago (45 children). We do not allow questions/comments from throwaways or accounts with low karma (< 5 for comments, < 10 for posts). You could still find success. I won't ever forget the pain I endured the first days after the operation when taking a shit. ... All Things Reddit. use the following search parameters to narrow your results: Unsure if the rules apply to you for your post/comment? 0. The AskMen editorial team thoroughly researches & reviews the best gear, services and staples for life. You will reach a time in your life where your parents will get old, and eventually need your help, whether it's wanted or not. I'm just pretending to know what I'm doing and hoping I'm right, and my parents - everybody's parents - were/are doing the same thing. Share Tweet Flip. I’m painfully aware of the passing of time now, it seems to go by so fast it’s almost scary and I want it to slow down. No idea who gets credit for this quote, but I’ve always felt it applies to adulthood well..... First you get your Bachelor's degree, and you think you know everything. Take care of yourself...get in the habit of eating right and exercising regularly before it becomes too difficult. (Edit) Im not going to fix the typo. TL;DR [–][deleted] 31 points32 points33 points 1 year ago (1 child), Oh I meant people in the street. Then I got my shit together. Save some of the fuel to keep yourself toasty. Home. It's just not worth it anymore. [–]nom_nom44Male 216 points217 points218 points 1 year ago (5 children). It's so strange. :(, [–]greeny58 11680Answer Link1167 points1168 points1169 points 1 year ago (33 children). Keep your question concise. Till I read your comment, I was thinking that they are responsible for many of my issues. The only thing I would add to this is to practice contentment NOW. The mindset of "that won't/can't happen to me" disappear and you realize that you are actually "fragile" and not "immune" to things like injury etc. Obviously demand can change considering the time we live in. Most of the things I remember and regret, I did to myself through lack of awareness and commitment. These are your best weapons in … Everything is gray, and that’s okay. I feel that only few people reach this conclusion sadly. [–]jtl090179 362 points363 points364 points 1 year ago (19 children). [–][deleted] 423 points424 points425 points 1 year ago (23 children). [–][deleted] 613 points614 points615 points 1 year ago (10 children). [–]WaffleBauf 34 points35 points36 points 1 year ago (4 children). At 38 I've made more friends in the last 4 years than I did in the previous 10. If you have plans about what kinds of skills will help you get hired in positions you’re looking at, you’ll get hired. I love my mom and dad dearly. [–]BenIsProbablyAngry 406 points407 points408 points 1 year ago (32 children). They consistently say that I look fat/too skinny and going to gym isn’t giving me the results of a world class body builder. [–]MgFi 67 points68 points69 points 1 year ago (4 children). What phone/shoes/t-shirt you have doesn't matter. You’re not flailing in the dark anymore. [–]ExtensionActuator 92 points93 points94 points 1 year ago (0 children), [–]Redditor_PC 45 points46 points47 points 1 year ago (7 children). I fixed it by strengthening my lower back with weight lifting, and core exercises, which help stabilize your lower back. Moderation is not discussed through private messages or chat. There’s this book called Failing Forward by John C. Maxwell that basically talks about how life is a series of failing and learning from it. AskMen may get paid if you click a link in … Learned this with my wife. If you want to be a sad sack and complain about your life, go to /r/rant or /r/ForeverAlone. Make a choice, commit with confidence. Be liquid, unscared of change. It's time to stop. Covered in wrinkles, creases, and leathery skin. The Indian edition of AskMen, the world’s best men’s lifestyle site, dedicated to helping you become a better man. Yes. It may have been their responsibility, but it wasn't their fault. I have, however, recently experienced back pain for the first time. I had back pain in my early 20s. Booze Food. Your body slows down on recovery and you're more prone to injury from things you could easily do when you're in your 20's. You're one OF a million, not one IN a million. [–]NicJitsu 882 points883 points884 points 1 year ago (50 children). Mid 30's now and haven't had issues in years thanks to squats and deadlifts, I'm totally pain free everywhere! [–]Jefe4fingers 45680Answer Link4567 points4568 points4569 points 1 year ago3 (95 children). It can be a harsh thing to think about, the fact that nobody cares about the majority of things that happen in your life but it's also pretty liberating. I now sometimes forget I have back issues at all. You need to be your own best friend, cheerleader, drill sergeant and mommy. Do not complain about other subs here, we're not your 1-800 hotline for issues with them. No clickbait (i.e. I will, now, take a new approach and repair my relationship with them. I agree absolutely. Then you get your Doctorate, and you find out that nobody knows anything. Impress the Guy in Your Life With One of These Top Holiday Gifts Read More. [–]JR3000 44 points45 points46 points 1 year ago (2 children). [–]vostok33 97 points98 points99 points 1 year ago (4 children). Usually it happened because of poor dietary choices, like eating too much chocolate or spicy food, and they hurted a lot. You are always committed to something (whether you have consciously chosen it or not) and will be acting to support that commitment. Do not ask yes/no or one word answer questions. Like, you can call me at 2 am and need me for something and I'm already on my way, but if no one reaches out I'll find something to occupy me. These celebs show off the best of athleisure, effortlessly mixing comfort and style. My brother is 40, I'm 38. So much to do, so much to see, so what's wrong with eating a pastry? I appreciate it, [–][deleted] 303 points304 points305 points 1 year ago (17 children). They see gray temples and they map their expectations onto me. Graduated high school with a 4.0 and college with 3.6. Your intention and commitment make your imagination become reality. [–]IceBear14Male 35 119 points120 points121 points 1 year ago (2 children), While that's true, that's also a really depressing way to look at it. Learn to be loving, forgiving, sympathetic, patient, thankful, and compassionate inside towards yourself and the world will reflect that. The Indian edition of AskMen, the world’s best men’s lifestyle site, dedicated to helping you become a better man. The online guitar communities on YouTube and Instagram are INSANELY welcoming, and the big trend right now is hardcore collaboration, so I’ve been making friends on discord servers and Facebook groups, and all sorts of places, where we all share our guitar/music ideas, and a ton of us collaborate. I wish I could still do the things I loved doing, but there are other ways to be happy - I can use an elliptical, but I can’t run. IF medical issue THEN seek medical help asap There are subs like /r/politics and /r/PoliticalDiscussion if you want to debate political ideas or candidates. There’s also a major bonus involved, because it’s not about impressing people as much as it used to be! Grid view List view. [–]40ozSmasher 376 points377 points378 points 1 year ago (8 children). Getting too attached to someone or something is only going to lead to misery. [–]Oblivionka[S] 311 points312 points313 points 1 year ago (34 children). Neither can we lol. On the one had this could be a degree (I’d opt for either something with academic skills so you can use it for research/analysis in several fields or a degree that prepares you for a job there is demand for). Men who live alone, what advice would you give to someone starting on that path. This can save you so much pain and money down the line. I'm having to recognize some things just want happen in life that I wanted and I have to be okay with that. The site may not work properly if you don't, If you do not update your browser, we suggest you visit, Press J to jump to the feed. People mostly don’t care that I’m redlining at their normal walking speed. I'm about to hit 31. Starting your paper is one thing, Finishing it is another. [–]needadvice1234554321 32 points33 points34 points 1 year ago (1 child). [–]Thisiscliff 710 points711 points712 points 1 year ago*2 (67 children), [–]MangoGruble 172 points173 points174 points 1 year ago (33 children). I'm 32 and got very drunk at my work holiday party. OMG yes - my dad was flirting with this young shop attendant and it was pure cringe. Time creeps up fast and we can’t count on standard pensions anymore. Top Stories. Food & Booze. getting your shit togetner is something that won't happen overnight..right? https://trib.al/VeCZZt2 Your body is like a car that you can never trade in. Take time for your health daily (like exercising, meditating, eating healthy, drinking enough water, getting enough sleep, or just going for walks). Once you have a plan, there’s no more cause for worry. If you have a plan about what kind of jobs and money you might be making with your chosen education path, there’s nothing more to do than put in the work and make it happen. 20 years old rn and I've had to buy a new set of underwear twice already (since high school), Don't forget to review the FAQ, Common Topics, and Search Bar before posting. You don’t always know if you’ll love the job but it’s much easier to pivot your position and skills as you gain experience vs right off the bat. I do not need external validation. I started getting back pain at 22 sobs, [–]skitchbeatz 438 points439 points440 points 1 year ago (115 children). I'm 29 and just learned this last year. All those scrapes and dings add up over time. Be respectful. I realized recently my attitude needed a big change. Any memories of us both being “mature” never happened or just were forgotten. In the final analysis the only experiences that matter are your own and what you learn from them. [–]shadowoperative 361 points362 points363 points 1 year ago (14 children). So I try and appreciate the little things with them now while we can. Media/News Company. Glad I got tired of the hangovers and money spent a long time ago. The AskMen editorial team thoroughly researches & reviews the best gear, services and staples for life. 17.0k votes, 4.8k comments. You’ll eventually find your destination. Yep, plus you realize that all that glitters ain’t gold. Best Compression Shirts Boost Your Athletic Performance & Minimize Skin Irritation With These Top Tops. Do something or be somebody outside of work. Most popular books. [–]Schallfaden 100 points101 points102 points 1 year ago* (18 children). Take some of that energy to build yourself up once in a while. Wisaime. I wasted a lot of time reading and thinking about issues I have no control over. 37 and still going strong. The AskMen editorial team thoroughly researches & reviews the best gear, services and staples for life. 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